{"id":99,"date":"2011-02-25T21:34:07","date_gmt":"2011-02-25T21:34:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/?p=99"},"modified":"2011-03-20T18:19:56","modified_gmt":"2011-03-20T18:19:56","slug":"what-beaches-teach-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fanagrams.com\/blog\/2011\/02\/what-beaches-teach-us\/","title":{"rendered":"What Beaches Teach Us"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Like many others in my peer group who first started typing on a manual typewriter, I have had an ambivalent love\/mostly hate relationship with computers from the get go \u2013 continually feeling intimidated and frustrated with impenetrable jargon that requires a call to India to get a computer up and running, a new standard of typing excellence that tolerates no typos, and power point presentations with stunning visual effects to keep the audience from nodding off.\u00a0 However, for our son Ned, it has been pure love ever since the day we opened the door and let the devil walk in.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>We started innocently enough with a reality game called Oregon Trail, where we were supposed to outfit a family traveling west on a wagon train.\u00a0 The only part of the game that Ned liked was the option of heading out to shoot game, leaving the women and children alone on the Conestoga wagon, succumbing to croup, dropsy, mosquitoes or random catastrophes, such as getting caught in a wagon wheel.\u00a0 We were constantly hungry because Ned was not a very good shot and would quickly run out of ammunition.\u00a0 Everyone in our wagon train would always die before Salt Lake City.\u00a0 My friends George and Martha played with their daughter Sarah, who actually successfully got her wagon train all the way to San Francisco without any attrition.\u00a0 She said that the key was to stop in Navoo and stock up on pemmican and buy some mules and a cart before heading across the plains.\u00a0 But Ned insisted that we could probably make it if we just bought more ammunition.<\/p>\n<p>For Ned, this reality computer game served as a gateway to the true devil of online fantasy games, involving epic battles between vicious take-no-prisoners fantasy armies.\u00a0 The computer screen would be dripping with blood and emitting agonizing death throes.\u00a0 At one point Ned got very involved with a lurid game called Tribes.\u00a0 One night at our family dinner,<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/what-beaches-teach-us-tribes-v.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-100\" title=\"what beaches teach us tribes v\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/what-beaches-teach-us-tribes-v-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a> he got up and excused himself saying, \u201cI am going to be late for my team practice.\u201d\u00a0 I assumed it was a school team, so was surprised when he informed me, \u201cI have a practice with my online Tribes team because we have a match tonight at 11.\u201d\u00a0 That was probably my breaking point.\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cWhy can\u2019t you get involved with something that has some sort of redeeming qualities?\u201d I said.\u00a0 \u201cEvery time I go by your room I hear gunfire and it depresses me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0He actually came up with a rather quick witted reply, \u201cLook, I am learning life skills like how to strategize, plan ahead and be on a team.\u00a0 Besides I notice that you regularly watch Law and Order, and so it seems to me that you watch plenty of death and violence yourself.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 I thought of trying to explain the difference between senseless anonymous killing and the obvious appeal of trying to unravel the motives of a tragically dysfunctional family, but felt that I would only be digging myself a deeper hole.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Time for Plan B.\u00a0 We were taking a spring break trip to Paris, and I thought that a side trip to the Normandy beaches would be an effective real life antidote to online violence.\u00a0 We arrived at Omaha beach on a beautiful spring day.\u00a0 The beach was<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/what-beaches-omaha_beach_today.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-101\" title=\"what beaches omaha_beach_today\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/what-beaches-omaha_beach_today-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a> pristine, peaceful and empty, an impossible contrast with images of the hell-on-earth D-Day beach.\u00a0 I had read the book the Longest Day on the plane ride over, which showed pictures of overwhelming carnage &#8211; abandoned vehicles spewing forth acrid smoke, barely living men staggering around in a trance-like state and of course plenty of dead men.\u00a0 The awkward bodies were partially submerged in sand, indicating that they must have been abandoned there for some time as the tide moved the sand around them.\u00a0 I did not know if the beach was now abandoned out of respect, or come a warmer day in summer, the beach would be swarming with vacationing families with the sidewalk filling with strolling sweethearts and vendors selling ice cream from pushcarts.\u00a0 It was hard to guess which scenario would be<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/what-beaches-dday-omaha.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-102\" title=\"what beaches dday-omaha\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/what-beaches-dday-omaha-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a> more poignant.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0The next stop was the Omaha Beach museum.\u00a0 There seemed to be plenty of small museums in the area filled with relics collected by local residents <a href=\"http:\/\/ukviagras.com\/ed\/viagra-uk\/\" style=\"color: #111; border-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none\">ukviagras.com<\/a>.\u00a0 This museum included various dioramas, but also pictures and letters that were found on the dead soldiers.\u00a0 It was at this moment that Ned began to appreciate the concept of a soldier as an individual and not an anonymous member of an expendable army.\u00a0 From here we went to\u00a0Pointe-du-Hoc where there was a German pillbox overlooking a bluff.\u00a0 Peeking over the bluff, you could see that only the most heroic and downright lucky American could have ever made it to the top through the bullets raining down from the German pillbox.\u00a0 The top of the bluff was spring-green and grassy, but the<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/beaches-pointe_du_hoc.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-134\" title=\"beaches-pointe_du_hoc\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/beaches-pointe_du_hoc-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a> pock-marks from incoming artillery shells were<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/what-beaches-pointe.jpg\"><\/a> still easily visible.\u00a0 The whole area looked like a close up of the surface of a golf ball.\u00a0 That evening we stayed at a farmhouse bed and breakfast, which was used as some sort of make shift hospital during D-Day.\u00a0 Pictures on the walls showed the home overtaken by nurses and the wounded in the very rooms we were staying in.\u00a0 I felt that I had scored another direct hit with Ned.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>However, nothing could have prepared us for the emotional wallop of our visit to the American Cemetery the next day.\u00a0 The last turn in the long forested driveway opened onto seemingly endless rows of glistening tombstones.\u00a0 We walked quietly through the rows, touching the tops of some of the stones or looking down to read the names of the fallen.\u00a0 And just when I<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/Beaches-teach-us.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-104\" title=\"Beaches teach us\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fanagrams.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/Beaches-teach-us-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a> thought I could not bear it any longer, we turned the corner and saw the cemetery continuing unabated for another several acres.\u00a0 Before we had left, our friend Ray Murphy mentioned that his uncle was buried in this cemetery and I thought it would make it a nice focus if we could find his grave.\u00a0 Ray\u2019s uncle had died before he was born and in fact there was no one left in his family who had known his uncle personally.\u00a0 This is probably the fate of many in this cemetery as the living memory of World War II slowly slips away.\u00a0 Somehow this seemed to make it more important to find a specific grave and bring it back to life as a real person and a family member.\u00a0 Although Murphy is not a particularly unusual name, I was still surprised when the database showed that there were several dozen Murphys buried here.\u00a0 Unfortunately, I did not have the details on Ray\u2019s uncle, but thought it would be sufficient to find a representative grave.\u00a0 \u00a0We did indeed find a Murphy grave, placed some flowers and took some pictures.\u00a0\u00a0 Even though it turned out that we had guessed wrong, it really didn\u2019t matter since Ray was immensely touched.\u00a0 Even so, I wanted to track down the true living relatives, or relatives of any of the other deceased, to let them know that their Murphy was well taken care of and appreciated in this lovely and heartbreaking cemetery on a bluff overlooking Omaha Beach.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>We drove into town for dinner that night and unanimously agreed to forego the German restaurant and settled for a quiet dinner at an Italian restaurant.\u00a0 We didn\u2019t talk too much about the day or its implications, and in fact, when I mention this story to Ned, he claims that he does not recall too many details of this visit at all.\u00a0 However, shortly thereafter I was gratified to realize that the gun noises stopped emanating from his room, he had dropped out of his Tribe and ever since then his focus has remained on online sports games.\u00a0 Mission accomplished.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h6>The missing words in the following poem are anagrams (i.e. post, stop, stop) and the number of dashes indicates the number of letters.\u00a0 One missing words with rhyme with either the preceding or following line.\u00a0 Your job is to solve the missing words based on the context of the poem.\u00a0 Scroll down for the answers.<\/h6>\n<p>\u00a0On D-Day the infantryman heads for Omaha Beach full of anxiety and hopes,<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Knowing 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